Am I a bad guy?

I realize this is a somewhat bizarre question to be asking on this sub but i had a moral dilemma of my conscience. So i may have a stash of some drugs that i am unwilling to distribute to certain friends of mine. Do you think i am a inherently bad guy or selfish for feeling this way? It seems these particular friends are very pushy and refuse to take no as an answer which makes me even more uncomfortable about the situation. Part of me feels as though one's decision about their property should be respected especially when it pertains to facilitating an illegal act and caving to this sort of thing only encourages more of the bad behavior. Guilt is definitely eating at me, but i'm not sure what for. This also may be taking place in an environment (work) where i can't separate myself from these friends should they decide to do something like extortion.


Comments


[136 Points] bad-taurus:

No, you have no obligation to them.

if they threaten your job

cut them


[33 Points] mrfloridamolly99:

Altruism for the sake of altruism is a form of self hatred.

If they are actually your friends your should have no problem helping them, if they are moochers you should feel no obligation.


[23 Points] whatsmynamep:

I've stoped selling to certain people because they can't handle the HQ of drugs i supply. Loose a costumer, never a friend.


[18 Points] thascarecro:

My line was always "I dont have any to sell but i'll blaze you out" Or insert whatever drug you have. That usually keeps it chill and you arent just giving shit away. They cant say you are not cool since they got a free high or cheap if you charge them a lunch or slurpee.


[13 Points] None:

If they threaten to go to the police, better find out where their family lives


[13 Points] DrReznik:

Parasites, stash your stuff somewhere safe....tell them to fuck off and see what happens.


[12 Points] sqrupfgt:

Bad guys dont worry about whether they're a bad guy or not.


[6 Points] Blais_Of_Glory:

Fuck them. They're just using you. I'm in recovery now but when I was using, I had shitty people like that in my life. They can't go to the cops because they got drugs off you. They can lie and report anonymously that you're a drug dealer but the cops won't give a shit or listen to them because there are plenty of people who lie to the police to try to get someone in trouble. Just cut them off conpletely and ignore their threats.


[4 Points] None:

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[6 Points] None:

Send them a link to the Bible and let them deal with it on their own.


[5 Points] Kolepayne:

If they are threatening you with the possession of items you have saying they will go to the police they is shady shit and shouldn’t be given anything too. Hide your shit from now and and explain you no longer have anything and don’t feel bad it’s their life you aren’t ruining especially if they threaten you why would you give them anything


[3 Points] Oxycocet:

Nah bro, that makes you a good guy. Obviously, you don't want to give these "friends" the drugs because you worry about them using or having problems with said drugs. My rule with my friends is generally if you haven't tried it before, I'm not giving it to you. Of course, that's only with harder drugs, I love smoking weed with people for the first time (..sometimes).

Don't worry about it. If they keep pressuring you about them, tell them you already got rid of them or some shit. Or, give them some laxative cut and sit and watch.

However, if they're threatening to tattle on you because you won't share your cookies at recess, that's some school yard shit and they should gtfoh.

Best of luck, OP!


[3 Points] Daaammmnnit:

They absolutely aren't friends.


[2 Points] None:

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[2 Points] driverman1970:

They can set you up. The cops love CI's they will use the friendship to build trust. NEVER underestimate the shitty things that junkies will do


[2 Points] pauz43:

So they threatened to tattle to the police. The police get people like those showing up every day with wild stories about who the local dealer is and why the dealer should be ARRESTED RIGHT FUCKING NOW!!! If there is no solid evidence, LE will thank them politely and escort them out the door. They are a nuisance every LE has to tolerate. LE considers them BSers and a waste of time.


[2 Points] blackhand25:

Did you make some prior agreement with them? If you agreed to sell them stuff and then stiffed them after they paid you or fulfilled their end of the bargain then yeah you're an ass. If they think you owe them free drugs then they can get fucked.


[1 Points] None:

You should find new friends.


[1 Points] JulianUndso:

wtf


[1 Points] driverman1970:

Move ur stash outta your crib and lay low take a vacation. Hope u have saved enough to say your done. Let them suffer for a while. Hopefully, they go somewhere else and leave u the fuck alone. Slowly start the hustle with the folks that u know are cool.


[1 Points] Pfigfel:

Clean house and let them try and fuck with you lol, you’re just being manipulated by these cunts. Family is the same way with me and my money.


[1 Points] coffeencreme:

No not at all. What's yours is yours if you share that's nice but you're under no obligation to do so.


[1 Points] samwise4444:

Hell No ! In fact, I'd go so far to say that the fact that you're so conscientious about the whole matter that you're a pretty decent person. But Dude, you don't OWE anybody shit ! And there's nothing wrong with taking care of your own personal needs - hell, that's the way it's supposed to go.

I can understand how you feel because I hook people up all the time - hell, even giving shit away sometimes and I always feel pretty good about it - but when I get down to my personal "emergency" stash I don't even tell anybody about it. So if I can spare shit, I will, but if I can, then I don't. It doesn't even exist in a matter of speaking. So chill. Just tell your "friends" your dry - if they're your friends they shouldn't automatically you're lying - if they do, I'd question that friendship.

In conclusion: No, you're not a bad buy ! Feel better now ?


[1 Points] Furanyl:

Let me give you a piece of advice.

Never EVER put yourself in a situation where someone can blackmail you.

That is one of the most critical rules of OPSEC. Now I know this automatically excludes a fuckton of things that so many dealers do such as meeting clients in person, etc. but the very few who live by this principle are the ones who never have problems with cops and other shit like this.

I've been conducting my business with that principle in mind for the last two years and I've never had a single issue that threatened my well-being of freedom. No one has a fucking clue who this mystery chemist is, and it's gonna stay that way despite the complexities of how I distribute the product. It's fucking hard to come up with a way to sell stuff without coming into contact with people face to face, but it's possible.

Good luck and please, if you make it out of this, take what I said here into account.

Also, if your safety is in question and your "friends" are blackmailing you, you have nothing to feel bad about. You're the one getting fucked over here.

And please update us with your situation if something happens, I'm interested. PM me if ya want.


[1 Points] jeinova:

pushy = no business for you


[1 Points] plainbrowndog:

First off, you are under no "moral obligation" to share anything with anyone. But you fucked up letting someone from your work know that you have a supply of drugs. But luckily, the danger is low.

They can't just walk into a police station and say "so and so has drugs go get em". A random report is not sufficient evidence for a search warrant. The most the police can do is come talk to you, in which case you will say "I have no idea why anyone would say that about me, but no I do not consent to a search". They might watch your house or something for a while but as long as you're not doing any dealing or something they won't see much.

However, do these "friends" know you receive the drugs in the mail?


[1 Points] None:

If they ever decide to extort you cut them off entirely they aren't your friends. I'd take it very personally if my friends ever did something like that to me. Don't listen to my advice, but I'd do a bunch of cocaine and go to their houses with a baseball bat. I believe the rest to be history at that point. Point is, don't fuck with a cokehead.


[1 Points] innocentboy33:

Do you work with any hand tools etc? Just walk in and the first one that opens their mouth bury a claw hammer in his forehead and carry on as if nothing happened. That always worked for me. I might have got caught once or twice with d.n.a etc but it was only once or twice lol. If you don't stand up for yourself they will use and abuse you until you're lying in an alleyway with your y fronts around your ankles or worse stuffed in your mouth!


[1 Points] DickCheeseKillah:

Yes you're a bad guy now go give all away all your drugs.


[1 Points] BruceJender143:

if they are putting themselves at risk or hurting other people yeah fuck them. do what’s riht


[1 Points] None:

Go lace their drugs with fent and give it to them.

Bet they wont bother you anymore...


[1 Points] PurestResearch:

According to my sources , you have been under LE investigation for weeks while they log your info. Before the coming holidays you will be questioned and possibly arrested on felony drug charges. Make no mistake, LE is coming for YOU!! Good luck and I bid you a Good Day , Sir


[1 Points] etch_:

Charge them for your services. They want to treat you like a dealer or a middle man - charge for it. If there is no way of changing their mind or point of view, factor their idiocy and your risk into the price they pay.


[1 Points] MrOwnageQc:

Posts like these remind me of the forum posts that DPR used to post. I did not always agree with his philosophy, but I always liked reading his thoughts.


[1 Points] None:

Here is a fact by me. IF ANYBODY, man, woman, or CHILD, best friend, or stranger, told me they would threaten me with LE or calling my job, because I Wouldn't give/share/sell them drugs, I swear TO FUCKING GOD, My fist would be balled up, with in .0001 seconds, and slammed into their fucking LIps, NOse and FOrehead, REPEATEDLY. Unil the threat was subdued.

Call it a sucker punch, but that was a sucker play of words! Calm relaxed spread hand to a hard fist of steel smashing your lips and nose in in less than a second motherfucker, I swear to fuck.


[0 Points] dnthrowawayy12:

yes