If I placed an order that was to FE and it was never accepted (OC) should I consider that drop burned?
I've never had a successful order with him and my FE was never accepted. Which means LE would need to have his AB credentials and private key to decrypt my message to him.
Also, if an FE order is submitted, but never accepted; after it auto cancels can the vendor still read the notes I sent with the order?
This sounds like it's for /r/dnmparanoia
The vendor probably thinks you're LE being a first time buyer going straight to FE
And yes the vendor can still read the messages.