First Dispute, questions?

Am I considered an asshole for disputing an international pack that has taken 13 days? I just want to hold off the auto FE, but I don't want the vendor to feel like I'm an asshole, I sent him a message yesterday saying that if it didn't land today I'd have to open a dispute to hold off the auto FE.

Another question is how do these disputes work? Does the mod create a conversation between us 3 to work out the details?

Also the vendor says in his profile 10 days for world wide and many reviews are saying 8-9 days to get to my country.


Comments


[3 Points] I_Am_Balthazar:

You're not an asshole, you're using escrow properly. Open a dispute, letting the moderator and vendor both know you are just extending the auto-finalize date.


[1 Points] Sisyphus31373:

Can someone tell me how to open a dispute on AB?