Guy was magic! I logged in one day and found the markets he uses were both just gone, which was super sad. I was more worried about losing my favorite vender than I was the $400 bucks I'd left in my market wallet (bad move, dummy, bad move!).
Anyway, I still have his PGP key, so at least if I find him, I'll know it's really him. I trust this guy so much that I'll follow him to another site or I'll deal directly or whatever we end up deciding to do. But I gotta' find him first! Help a guy out, and I'll send you $50 worth of btc so it can be a win/win.
here is his grams page. http://grams7enufi7jmdl.onion/infodesk/vendor/0x4D928815FB27E947