how open are you about your drug habits with girls?

This may be random but im kinda fucked up and this just came up in my mind. When you first start speaking to a girl do you tell them you do drugs or do you keep that completely secret? I've been serving irl for a few years and i've realized the more opened i was with a girl about my drug habits it would be the hoeish type that would come around. Now that i keep to myself and sell mostly online and barely irl i just keep everything a secret. How open/closed are you when you first date a chick?


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[35 Points] Shill_Bill:

I drop a line about smoking weed within 5 minutes of meeting a new chick. Then depending on her reaction I'll decide if I wanna introduce her to my main bitches Molly and Lucy haha. I'm far from a drug abuser but it seems the only type of woman I attract is there to get fucked up everyday.

The one chick I dated for 5 years started doing lsd in April of last year and has already tripped 50+ times. I don't have a problem with you tripping 50+ times a year (actually I do because it was affecting me financially) but you can't tell me that shit doesn't change your personality bitch!

Long story short every chick since has been a bar using bitch, coked out and ready to fuck for more, or like to nod off while I'm fucking them.

the more I type the more I feel like going to church to meet a bish lol


[27 Points] blueatheart:

Here's my method of kind of feeling people out to see if they are cool...

I smoke cigs, so of you ask someone "do you smoke?" If they hesitate for even one second, they are trying to figure out what substances you are asking about. Yes, dude...they smoke...now, to figure out what they like...

Weed is safe. In all honesty, I don't even want to be with a person that hates weed. At minimum, they need to be okay with me smoking, whether they smoke or not.

After you break the ice with good ol' weed, bust out a little loritab or a xanny or something pharmaceutical. Offer your date one...see how they react...

Usually talking about weed and/or blazing together, opens up an entire discussion on what drugs your prospective mate enjoys. Just ask the right questions and pay very close attention to the responses you get.

Source: I'm a girl who is not a dope whore. Not that being a dope whore is necessarily a bad thing...It's just usually a shitty deal. Nine times out of ten, you come out better if you get your $$ then call a dealer ;)


[8 Points] 100x100ug:

Depends on the girl. Give them a feel about how they feel about light stuff like weed, and if they seem open just chill with that for a bit and then over time introduce other more intense stuff. Works for me.


[7 Points] Devoid_:

Why would you just tell everyone about your illegal shit without trusting them. Many men have been done in by an angry woman. Saying that im a 100% honest, I love my girlfriend and she doesn't deserve anything less. It helps that she's down for the cause


[3 Points] MDMangel:

"Hoeish type"? Are you selling crack?


[3 Points] None:

The sensible answer here would be "not very".


[2 Points] None:

Well i met my soul mate and she is a carbon copy of myself and loves molly Lucy and Mary.....


[2 Points] None:

When I first meet a girl I whip out a huge rock of coke and shove it up my ass and if she freaks out at runs away (like most do) then she's not for me


[1 Points] octomarvel:

Unless you're dealing with government departments, honesty is the best policy. I mean, drugs are kinda widespread these days. Everyone n their mother is on something.

Sometimes you need to take a risk..for love..of drugs.

=)


[1 Points] crystaldust:

Being a drug dealer can work to your benefit sometimes the girls like bad boys and free drugs. However if you like what are doing it's probably safer to keep it a secret, you can still have drugs but keep the selling from them if you can.

A bitch can take your home, take your kid, take your car, take half or more of your money, you don't think she will take your drugs too, or put you in you jail. All it takes is something stupid man like she wants something you don't give her, or you talking to some other girl and they will try to ruin you anyway they can. Kick it with some girls do some drugs but you don't need to let them in on your game.

I'm saying be Leary of all of them, even if you got that girl that is chill as fuck and is like your roll dog that you can do dirt with or whatever things can change instantly. Even them nice ones you want to make babies with and bring home to your mom you got to be careful with. It's almost better if your slanging dope to just have some chicks you party and get down with and that's it nothing more than that. It sucks but it's safer for you.

You could luck out and find a wifey that is down and doesn't care about your dealing that will eat your snot if you asked her to and never do a thing to harm you. That's rare been many a good man taken down by women. I shouldn't even be saying this its drug dealing 101 stuff every player should know already.


[1 Points] None:

They'll find out eventually, best to tell them early on.


[1 Points] Molly-Serious:

Are you trying to give us all a group complex?


[1 Points] GimmeDemStrains:

Be honest from the start in my opinion, I wouldn't want to waste anyones time by misleading them, if they have an issue with weed then that's not the sort of narrow minded personality I'd want to keep in my company.


[1 Points] None:

I have met a lot of men in jail who were there after being snitched on by the women in their life. It's best to keep it a secret.


[1 Points] MittRomneysCampaign:

No one tells someone their whole life story when they first meet. Tell them progressively more alienating details about your life, and see how they respond each time.

I used to be unable to trust women when they would say I was attractive and would think they were lying or bullshitting, so I would paint myself as the most undateable kind of guy and see if they still slept with me. One way I did this was by saying how much I used to play the video game Stepmania. You could do the same thing with drugs though -- start by mentioning drug use, not distribution. "I have [drug] on me" is incriminating, but "I love [drug]" is not, nor is "I have done [drug]."

I'm in an open relationship (actually engagement) and we've been living together for nearly 2 years. For me the "this woman is with me for life" moment was when I was bedridden for a month and she took care of me for all of it -- at times literally wiping my ass and helping me pee into a bottle. When we got together she was actually worried that I would leave because she had a criminal past and I struck her as a Mitt Romney-esque white guy in voice/dress/demeanor. (This is just the aesthetic I choose, since if I looked even half as weird as I actually am no one would talk to me.)

Like other people have said here, you're basically looking for a ride-or-die bitch. The good part about this is that psychology studies almost always show that like-attracts-like, and this is even more true with people who are psychologically abnormal (i.e. everyone here), so when you find a girl who you're absolutely nuts over there's a good chance she's equally as nuts over you and has secrets of her own that are as big of bombshells as yours. Just make sure that you maintain a really really high standard for chemistry, i.e. don't even consider dating unless chemistry is unlike anything you've ever had before.


[1 Points] Caymanquestion:

Depends on how old youare, 12 or 18? If your 18 might I suggest stop being a pedo?


[1 Points] -nineofswords:

the more opened i was with a girl about my drug habits it would be the hoeish type that would come around.

honestly, this is maybe more about how you were open i'm guessing. if you are openly / socially known as a drug user - ie it's easy to see you're fucked up or strung out or that you don't DGAF who knows you use drugs - anyone who uses drugs but is more private will stay away.

don't be too open at first. casually bring up some news item or reference to drugs, maybe softer drugs at first and see how they react. or mention a 'friend' uses drugs etc. (not a real mutual acquaintance obviously). see if she seems to be ignorant or opposed, if so drop it. but no point investing a lot of time in a relationship with someone who wouldn't accept that part of you - who wants to always be living a double life?


[1 Points] None:

I'm asexual, so I get to do all the drugs I want.


[1 Points] thr0waway858585:

im a girl. i dont care what drugs guys do personally and im not really a "hoeish" type. people dont think i do drugs but i do, if that says anything about me, lol.


[1 Points] postmort3m:

depends on scenario really. if it's some tinder bitch i usually just invite her to my place to smoke or something right off the bat then break out some acid. sold molly & x but imo the coolest and hottest girls i've met are those who fuck with acid & molly. if it's a party setting just ask em to go smoke a blunt then bring out whatcha got mid smoke. if they look kinda awed you're good, if they start talking about how weed cures cancer i'd run.


[1 Points] GNAR-TheBarGoblin:

I welcome them to the Xanny Family, with open arms.


[1 Points] None:

Tfw no gf


[1 Points] altecMI:

I have to keep everything from my girl she doesn't eperence the same as do with mdma or lsd. She's okay weed. but anything forgot im sure she wants to leave but she my trap queen. and I'm going to do what I want responsiblity. I take xannies every day weed dabs no problems my two favorite she hates and we been through those 100s of times. She was I was like this before but only occasionally nah im bad like to have my more at leaste more than once a year.


[1 Points] mtspirate:

Show her my track marks. lol