So I placed an order a few weeks ago that I never received. After almost 3 weeks I contacted the vendor. He didn't seem too concerned that the order was missing. After a few days he finally told me that the order had been returned to the sender because of a bad address. Now I know my address is perfectly good, I receive clearnet packages regularly and have received a number of darknet packages as well.
I asked the vendor if he received the return (rather than just left at a postal facility somewhere) because I want to know if my address is compromised. He would not tell me and instead cancelled my order. Now I can't leave feedback and I don't know if it is safe to order anymore. He is a reputable vendor and I have no reason to burn him, but he is refusing to provide me with details necessary for buyer OPSEC.
Does anyone have suggestions on how to deal with this?
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