What should I do? I want the funds returned to Electrum so I can take all my remaining bitcoin and include the correct (absurd) fee and get some money to a market today. I've upgraded TAILS/Electrum. Thanks in advance for any advice.*
*I know Monero is better, I know I should've updated TAILS sooner, I had "dynamic fees" set to 150%
Wait it out, took 6 days for me.
Or you could try double spend and null the txid.