Now we are in the Noughties or "Naughties"
more single people are worried about
finding love. Why? They’ve spent the
nineties racing to achieve career success.
Now they are asking themselves ‘is this
worth anything without someone to share it
with?’ The answer is often ‘no’.
You won’t find love unless you’re out there
interacting with people. And when you do,
you need to be able to interact with that
person in a way that allows you to discover
if they are right for you and for you to
radiate the best of yourself so that they are
attracted to you.
Apart from love, most of us want to enjoy
successful, fulfilling careers and have good
friends around us. The type of flirting I
promote is one that can either be very sexual or simply very social or a mixture of
both. And great flirting, when practised appropriately and with the right attitude, is a
gateway to more romance, deeper friendship, enhanced professional relationships and
a definite feel-good sensation in you and the people you flirt with.
WORKPLACE
3 PLANS FOR THE BUSINESS OF FLIRTING
Benefits
Most people know that when you want to win
people over, a little flirting goes a long way. The
person who consistently makes other people feel
good by smiling at them, paying attention to them,
showing they are interested and telling them when
they do something well is the person who is most
likely to succeed. If it’s a choice between you and
someone with the same abilities, you’ll win every
time because you bring that added feel-good
factor to your work and clients
Warning!
To get the most from workplace flirting follow
these recommendations: don’t be an overt
sexual flirt, you might give the impression you’ll
exchange sex for business favours such as
promotion or to get someone to do something
for you. Your colleagues will resent you and
you might end up getting more than you
bargained for. Turn down your sexual pilot
light to the lowest setting when flirting in
professional situations, until you know how far
you can go with the person.
Feel free to contact us with any question.
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