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Discussion => Off topic => Topic started by: i push the kush on July 26, 2013, 11:24 pm
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So, I'm 21 and so if my gf. She just found out she is pregnant about 1 month ago. But she will not move in with me because she hates my best friend who lives with me and she hates his whore girlfriend. They always come home late at night drunk and being loud, and that's just no place for a child. He has been my best friend since 7th grade, I don't want to kick him out cuz his house where he lived before actually got burnt down... Arson. But he is going to have to go, he has a lot of money so I shouldn't feel too bad. I'm just trying to think of a way to tell him without being so blunt and dickhead like haha what do you guys think? I don't want to ruin a friendship, but I'm growing up and some shit is going to have to change. Any feedback is appreciated.
Regards,
i push the kush
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
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Mr Pusher,
There is a very simple solution to your predicament;
Walk around nude!
He'll move out in a jiffy.
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
exactly! and like you said if he has money it's just a having a man 2 man
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Mr Pusher,
There is a very simple solution to your predicament;
Walk around nude!
He'll move out in a jiffy.
his friend would prob think it was funny
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
Thanks. I just cant have the kid around the environment he chooses to live (the party life). My life isn't one big fucking party, I am currently unemployed looking for a job. So him and I both sell MDMA, I am just stacking up money so I can provide for my gf and child. So once the baby is here I'm going to have to get out of the game. That's why I'm doing all I can do right now. But soon enough I'm just gonna have to say "Hey man, nothing personal against you, but you're gonna have to move out so my gf can move in and I can have a family" I know we've been best friends forever and all but shit happens and life changes.
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
Thanks. I just cant have the kid around the environment he chooses to live (the party life). My life isn't one big fucking party, I am currently unemployed looking for a job. So him and I both sell MDMA, I am just stacking up money so I can provide for my gf and child. So once the baby is here I'm going to have to get out of the game. That's why I'm doing all I can do right now. But soon enough I'm just gonna have to say "Hey man, nothing personal against you, but you're gonna have to move out so my gf can move in and I can have a family" I know we've been best friends forever and all but shit happens and life changes.
ummm oh well then it sounds like your not separating yourself from that life since you sell mol
more that you want your privacy since your gonna have a kid
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
Thanks. I just cant have the kid around the environment he chooses to live (the party life). My life isn't one big fucking party, I am currently unemployed looking for a job. So him and I both sell MDMA, I am just stacking up money so I can provide for my gf and child. So once the baby is here I'm going to have to get out of the game. That's why I'm doing all I can do right now. But soon enough I'm just gonna have to say "Hey man, nothing personal against you, but you're gonna have to move out so my gf can move in and I can have a family" I know we've been best friends forever and all but shit happens and life changes.
ummm oh well then it sounds like your not separating yourself from that life since you sell mol
more that you want your privacy since your gonna have a kid
You didn't read correctly, I said once the kid is here I am going to have to get out of the game ;)
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If you haven't started talking about this to him yet, then you should.. stat.
People are alot more receptive to things when they aren't blind sided. Besides, if him and his girl are gonna be partying.. They aren't gonna wanna live with a kid, so if you start the talks now then it should be smooth.
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Also bring up your girlfriend being pregnant FIRST and frame it as you needing to make a change in your life (living with her, not your best friend). This is a positive way of raising the issue, rather than admitting that it's largely motivated by your girlfriend not wanting to live with him.
Good luck!
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Also bring up your girlfriend being pregnant FIRST and frame it as you needing to make a change in your life (living with her, not your best friend). This is a positive way of raising the issue, rather than admitting that it's largely motivated by your girlfriend not wanting to live with him.
Good luck!
This as well...
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Your child should take priority, that's your blood.
Just be honest with him. Your life will be changing drastically, but it looks like you know what you have to do already.
Best of luck.
Thanks. I just cant have the kid around the environment he chooses to live (the party life). My life isn't one big fucking party, I am currently unemployed looking for a job. So him and I both sell MDMA, I am just stacking up money so I can provide for my gf and child. So once the baby is here I'm going to have to get out of the game. That's why I'm doing all I can do right now. But soon enough I'm just gonna have to say "Hey man, nothing personal against you, but you're gonna have to move out so my gf can move in and I can have a family" I know we've been best friends forever and all but shit happens and life changes.
ummm oh well then it sounds like your not separating yourself from that life since you sell mol
more that you want your privacy since your gonna have a kid
You didn't read correctly, I said once the kid is here I am going to have to get out of the game ;)
My mistake, well if you have been friends forever when you guys are just chillin bring it up
im sure it wont be as big of a deal as you think.
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As everyone said just be upfront about it all but make sure he's sober ;)
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[...] You didn't come here to make a choice, you've already made it. You're here to try to understand why you made it.
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So, I'm 21 and so if my gf. She just found out she is pregnant about 1 month ago. But she will not move in with me because she hates my best friend who lives with me and she hates his whore girlfriend. They always come home late at night drunk and being loud, and that's just no place for a child. He has been my best friend since 7th grade, I don't want to kick him out cuz his house where he lived before actually got burnt down... Arson. But he is going to have to go, he has a lot of money so I shouldn't feel too bad. I'm just trying to think of a way to tell him without being so blunt and dickhead like haha what do you guys think? I don't want to ruin a friendship, but I'm growing up and some shit is going to have to change. Any feedback is appreciated.
Regards,
i push the kush
Just tell him, your kid will be taking prioroty and there aint enough room for all of you there. If he is truly your best friend he will understand, especially if he has cash to go somewhere else.
If he has a hissy fit, just tell him to go fuck himself.
Any best friend would understand. Even if I was flat broke and was living with a mate and there miss got pregnant I'd be gone in a heartbeat.
He'll understand!