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Title: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 11:53 am
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Raoul Duke on June 13, 2013, 12:05 pm
no advice for you sorry mate, just wanted to chime in to agree with you - IME they're ALL like that. every bird i've lived with (there's been a few) has been a complete fucking slob in the house. they're fit as fuck when they're out and about, but just a total fucking slob at home

i reckon in general blokes are tidier than women
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Darktime on June 13, 2013, 12:12 pm
Sorry dude.no offense meant by this but...Sounds like you the bitch,she the one with the trousers!
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: NewStem on June 13, 2013, 12:15 pm
I hear that. I love my lady and consider her a best friend, but I'm afraid to move in with her because I don't want my badgering about tidiness to ruin our relationship. My own room is not the world's neatest, but the rest of my place - all the 'public areas' - are clean all the time. I don't mind a bit of clutter or clothe piles, but will gag in the prolonged presence of heaps of dishes, filthy sinks, sticky floors. I cannot be comfortable in unsanitary environments.

I've thought about the precedents I would have to set before ever moving in together- No dishes left in the sink overnight, biweekly massive top-to-bottoms (vacuuming, mopping, etc) and cleaning up messes the minute they occur would all have to be agreed upon.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 12:17 pm
Sorry dude.no offense meant by this but...Sounds like you the bitch,she the one with the trousers!
now im reading that i did sound a bit bitchy, However once your in a relationship its 50/50 and compromise or it will never last. My opinion anyway.
Shes a great fucking missus dont get me wrong, nice girl , trustworthy, good looking, a good friend, cooks me my dinner every single night without fail, Just fucking messy as fuck!!

no advice for you sorry mate, just wanted to chime in to agree with you - IME they're ALL like that. every bird i've lived with (there's been a few) has been a complete fucking slob in the house. they're fit as fuck when they're out and about, but just a total fucking slob at home

i reckon in general blokes are tidier than women

haha, i reckon that is the general consensus, guys are tidier than women. full stop.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 12:24 pm
I hear that. I love my lady and consider her a best friend, but I'm afraid to move in with her because I don't want my badgering about tidiness to ruin our relationship. My own room is not the world's neatest, but the rest of my place - all the 'public areas' - are clean all the time. I don't mind a bit of clutter or clothe piles, but will gag in the prolonged presence of heaps of dishes, filthy sinks, sticky floors. I cannot be comfortable in unsanitary environments.

I've thought about the precedents I would have to set before ever moving in together- No dishes left in the sink overnight, biweekly massive top-to-bottoms (vacuuming, mopping, etc) and cleaning up messes the minute they occur would all have to be agreed upon.

we are in the same boat my friend. i felt like i would have to write out something like the roommate agreement from the big bang theory lol!
if something spills clean it up, if you get something out put it back where it was. it's not that hard.
the odd clothes pile is fine, i dont have a problem picking them up on the way into the kitchen , it's all the other hassles.

make up everywhere etc, like right now im looking at a table, it must be 5 ft from a bin, yet she chooses to put wrappers of things on the table... What is the fucking logic there? is it so hard to stand up for a second and bin it? i have made a point of not clearing the shit up and telling her to clean her own mess up now, but half the fucking time it doesn't, she will leave it until it's unbearable and then do a massive full clean of the room until it is spotless, and then fuck it all up again.

It's really starting to piss me off... but i  wouldn't want to end a relationship that is otherwise mostly good just because of this ,however i wonder when the cut off point will be as it gets pretty stressful.

if i could give you one bit of advice it would be this. Set the ground rules out beforehand, make sure the consequences are plain and clear before you move in together. otherwise it will just develop and develop.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Darktime on June 13, 2013, 12:33 pm
Seriously though,there's a big difference between leaving some clothes around and the odd cup but I couldn't live with what newStem just described.No fkn way!in your case mukka I'd stick with what you got now and tell her to come round yours more often than you go round there ;)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 12:39 pm
Seriously though,there's a big difference between leaving some clothes around and the odd cup but I couldn't live with what newStem just described.No fkn way!in your case mukka I'd stick with what you got now and tell her to come round yours more often than you go round there ;)

yeah your right , a big difference between a couple of dishes and stains and shit.it's mainly things like, Say she was cutting veg up for dinner , She might leave the peelings on the chopping board instead of just binning them, or wrappers on tables when there's a bin 5 ft away, Or make up lying around the place. You know women shit.
ahh to think of the joy lol, She already lives with me. been this way for some time now.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: OzFreelancer on June 13, 2013, 12:41 pm
Oh dear.  The first post describes me to a T.  I never realised my messiness could be so annoying to another half... :(

Hire a cleaner.  Create a job and create harmony :)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 02:27 pm
Oh dear.  The first post describes me to a T.  I never realised my messiness could be so annoying to another half... :(

Hire a cleaner.  Create a job and create harmony :)

lmao you one off those ones ehh?
well we shouldn't need to hire a cleaner, that could be money well saved and spent on SR keeping this vibrant community going!  ;D With just a little effort put into cleaning up after one's self.
trust me do it and watch how much your boyfriend appreciates you, if he asks you got the advice from a caring stranger on the internet... Lmao :D
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: mary666 on June 13, 2013, 03:12 pm
I,ve lived with 3 guys, the 1st 2 i had to pick up after their arse,s, leaving dirty clothes on floor, dishes, infact cleaning in general, the guy i,m with now is completely different, leaves none of his shit lying around helps clean, so we have a nice clean tidy house all the time  ;) Some people are tidy and some people aren,t, its that simple, male and female, nice when your both tidy, no nagging from anyone  ;)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Oldschool on June 13, 2013, 03:21 pm
You have to love the person for who they are, If she is messy and you need your partner to be clean four options... you can change to accept living in filth, she can change and pull her weight around the house more, you could find a more compatible house mate, or you could both chip in to employ a cleaner. I found telling her to think of housework as exercise didn't go down so well... lol :)
I found my place in the "classic" family role where the man earns the big bucks and the woman maintains the home/kids/chores/herself so he can earn them bucks.
Good luck, I hope you work it out!
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: MC Haberdasher on June 13, 2013, 03:25 pm
I,ve lived with 3 guys, the 1st 2 i had to pick up after their arse,s, leaving dirty clothes on floor, dishes, infact cleaning in general, the guy i,m with now is completely different, leaves none of his shit lying around helps clean, so we have a nice clean tidy house all the time  ;) Some people are tidy and some people aren,t, its that simple, male and female, nice when your both tidy, no nagging from anyone  ;)

Is edar a poof??
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: mary666 on June 13, 2013, 03:30 pm
I,ve lived with 3 guys, the 1st 2 i had to pick up after their arse,s, leaving dirty clothes on floor, dishes, infact cleaning in general, the guy i,m with now is completely different, leaves none of his shit lying around helps clean, so we have a nice clean tidy house all the time  ;) Some people are tidy and some people aren,t, its that simple, male and female, nice when your both tidy, no nagging from anyone  ;)

Is edar a poof??
I don,t get it, wtf does that mean i,m a woman and who,s edar  :-\
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: fuckingACE on June 13, 2013, 04:43 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
Make a super-dose IV concoction of DMT, LSD, Mescaline and a sprinkle of PCP. Dose the bitch  with a huge amount, dont fuck around here, I´m talking like those huge ass 50ml syringes. Do it whilst shes asleep. Sneak out out the room and go put on your giant garbage costume, that is a costume consisting of a trash can body, black rubbish sack trousers, dead trouts and stuff glued on everywhere. make it really fucking disgusting.
Then grab your taser count to 3, perhaps do a quick hit of crystal meth. Bust in the door, making sure to wake the bitch up as violently as possible. taser her a few times whilst laughing manically. blind fold her and dump her, terrorised, in the boot of your car, for good effect throw a couple of trash bags in with her, the really smelly ones. Drive out to an industrial dumping ground and drag her out of the car. Taze her some more and tell her this is where she belongs in a deep dramatic voice. make sure she dosent spot your car and dance off manically.
After 36 terroriffic hours of her begging to god for salvation and digging her way though other peoples disused condoms and diapers she should be just starting to come down. when she works out how to communicate with people again or use a payphone she should hopefully work her way home or call you for a lift. You should find some fundamental changes have taken place in her head. Of which cleanliness will be high up there at the top.

I hope this helps. If you get caught with her in the boot you DO NOT know me.

ACE
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: BoxofShapes on June 13, 2013, 04:49 pm
I hope this helps.

HAHAa.  I know I learned a few things.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: l0verboy on June 13, 2013, 05:00 pm
My girl was immaculate when we started dating. She cleaned, cooked, did laundry, ate healthy, and sucked dick and swallow. Now we are engaged and she's pregnant and the house is a wreck, she spends all our money on fast food and we never have sex...
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: mrmdma on June 13, 2013, 05:01 pm
My advice would be to move out of Yemen and divorce from your 12-year-old wife.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: TheGhosst on June 13, 2013, 05:09 pm
MY girlfriend and I tend to co-exist on every level. If I'm being a slob, she'll be one too. If I'm cleaning the house every day, so is she. If I cook, she helps. If she cooks, I help. We wash dishes together(even tho we have a dishwasher), etc etc.

Point is, it's never one persons job. It's a joint effort... the moment you start using the words "we" and "us" instead of always saying "you" or "me" ... that's when things will start getting cleaned up to your liking. Compromise is not about another person abiding by your rules or ideas... compromise is about sharing rules and ideas.

Can't say that I've ever fought with my GF. We've been together 4 years, and in the time, we've slept with 20+ women, together.

I honestly wonder when society is going to wake up, and start spreading the message that we truly ARE equal... if we allow ourselves to be!
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: fuckingACE on June 13, 2013, 05:25 pm
My girl was immaculate when we started dating. She cleaned, cooked, did laundry, ate healthy, and sucked dick and swallow. Now we are engaged and she's pregnant and the house is a wreck, she spends all our money on fast food and we never have sex...
Thats what happens when you impregnate them, its all a fucking conspiracy. They´re aliens. Their only fucking mission in life is to get pregnant and its all a sham up till then, all the dick sucking and massages and liking horror films and gaming. Its all a fucking LIE just to get some of that milky jizz. Once its theirs they drop the sherade and become lazy, fast food eating, weight accumulating a-sexual, midgets.
The key to a successful life is to lead as many on up to the point where it becomes the choice of giving them your sperm or getting dumped, to which point you ALWAYS chose the latter.

Healthy living tip 2 by Ace
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: livestr0ng on June 13, 2013, 09:06 pm
fuckingACE, why did I ever go to school? I could have just come to you for everything. Damn. I wasted 12 years of my life. From now on, you're my only source of learning, advice, and directing questions to.

OP, yes, I have the same issue. She'll prance around in public acting all clean and shit but go into her room and you want to walk right back out haha. It's the same thing with her car. Sometimes she comes into my room like a tornado and misplaces everything and throws her crap down in my way. As you mentioned earlier, if you get something out, put it back where you got it from...simple. However, she makes me happy and being with her means infinitely more than having to deal with her messiness.

if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

there's no way I can't not +1 you for that haha
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 13, 2013, 10:30 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
Make a super-dose IV concoction of DMT, LSD, Mescaline and a sprinkle of PCP. Dose the bitch  with a huge amount, dont fuck around here, I´m talking like those huge ass 50ml syringes. Do it whilst shes asleep. Sneak out out the room and go put on your giant garbage costume, that is a costume consisting of a trash can body, black rubbish sack trousers, dead trouts and stuff glued on everywhere. make it really fucking disgusting.
Then grab your taser count to 3, perhaps do a quick hit of crystal meth. Bust in the door, making sure to wake the bitch up as violently as possible. taser her a few times whilst laughing manically. blind fold her and dump her, terrorised, in the boot of your car, for good effect throw a couple of trash bags in with her, the really smelly ones. Drive out to an industrial dumping ground and drag her out of the car. Taze her some more and tell her this is where she belongs in a deep dramatic voice. make sure she dosent spot your car and dance off manically.
After 36 terroriffic hours of her begging to god for salvation and digging her way though other peoples disused condoms and diapers she should be just starting to come down. when she works out how to communicate with people again or use a payphone she should hopefully work her way home or call you for a lift. You should find some fundamental changes have taken place in her head. Of which cleanliness will be high up there at the top.

I hope this helps. If you get caught with her in the boot you DO NOT know me.

ACE
Ace....you fucking legend, I know i didnt want these types of responses, but for comedy you get 10/5. I literally just started fucking howling here. No shit.
you've got way to much time on your hands bro, either that or your a natural comedian.  ;DHAHAHA im still fucking laughing, i could take parts of your post and decide whereto start, but seriously, it was all funny.

You have to love the person for who they are, If she is messy and you need your partner to be clean four options... you can change to accept living in filth, she can change and pull her weight around the house more, you could find a more compatible house mate, or you could both chip in to employ a cleaner. I found telling her to think of housework as exercise didn't go down so well... lol :)
I found my place in the "classic" family role where the man earns the big bucks and the woman maintains the home/kids/chores/herself so he can earn them bucks.
Good luck, I hope you work it out!

yeah we have a type of "classic" family role and to be honest, it works well. You just hate coming home to a messy house all the time, it's like you do your part and she doesn't. either way, nice one mate. it's true, you either need to be a slob as well, which im not gunna do or  get her to pull more weight which i guess im just gunna have to find a way make it work.
anyways everything else is not bad, All the best wishing you well  :)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: fuckingACE on June 14, 2013, 12:10 am
fuckingACE, why did I ever go to school? I could have just come to you for everything. Damn. I wasted 12 years of my life. From now on, you're my only source of learning, advice, and directing questions to.

OP, yes, I have the same issue. She'll prance around in public acting all clean and shit but go into her room and you want to walk right back out haha. It's the same thing with her car. Sometimes she comes into my room like a tornado and misplaces everything and throws her crap down in my way. As you mentioned earlier, if you get something out, put it back where you got it from...simple. However, she makes me happy and being with her means infinitely more than having to deal with her messiness.

if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

there's no way I can't not +1 you for that haha
Many people take their life advice from me, they´re mostly in prison now, or dead. I like to think I apported something valuable to them whilst they were here.
ACE
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Raoul Duke on June 14, 2013, 08:05 am
It's the same thing with her car.

damn fucking straight. i won't even let her drive my car now because every time i do i find empty fag boxes and other shit in the door pockets - she don't even smoke any more - work that one out ??? >:(
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: fuckingACE on June 14, 2013, 08:10 am
It's the same thing with her car.

damn fucking straight. i won't even let her drive my car now because every time i do i find empty fag boxes and other shit in the door pockets - she don't even smoke any more - work that one out ??? >:(
Err Duke, you´re finding empty fag boxes in the car your gf borrows off you and she dosen´t smoke... I think that you need to have a chat with her... or bug the car.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Raoul Duke on June 14, 2013, 08:21 am
lol nah i can say with 100% certainty i ain't worried about her putting it about ;) among other things we're fairly well known locally so it would get back to me. they were always in the drivers side as well - she knows i'd cut her head off and shit down her neck if she let anyone drive my car, and around town pretty much everyone knows my car 8)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: BlackIris on June 14, 2013, 08:32 am
Sorry dude.no offense meant by this but...Sounds like you the bitch,she the one with the trousers!

LOL.

I was thinking that myself. I have the same exact problem with my wife... only at the inverse.
I'm super hyper messy and she always bother me about it, but I took the advice of Nietzsche by heart ("women are to be handled with the whip"): and I'm fine ;)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: BlackIris on June 14, 2013, 08:36 am
make up everywhere etc, like right now im looking at a table, it must be 5 ft from a bin, yet she chooses to put wrappers of things on the table... What is the fucking logic there? is it so hard to stand up for a second and bin it?

You don't understand the psychology and philosophy. I understand her perfectly.
Why put the things in the bin and waste even a minimal amount of energy for something you can place without problems on the table where you are and have SOMEONE ELSE do the work?
It's perfectly logic. ;)
Moreover it's too much an hassle always to be attentive on where to put things, you waste a lot of mental energy better used for something more productive.

I do the same. "Slaves shall serve" (it is the same motto that I say always to my wife when she complains about my mess and she gets angry as fuck). Why are you there for, elsewhere? Put things in order and shut up! LOL.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: BlackIris on June 14, 2013, 08:48 am
Thats what happens when you impregnate them, its all a fucking conspiracy. They´re aliens. Their only fucking mission in life is to get pregnant and its all a sham up till then, all the dick sucking and massages and liking horror films and gaming. Its all a fucking LIE just to get some of that milky jizz. Once its theirs they drop the sherade and become lazy, fast food eating, weight accumulating a-sexual, midgets.
The key to a successful life is to lead as many on up to the point where it becomes the choice of giving them your sperm or getting dumped, to which point you ALWAYS chose the latter.

Healthy living tip 2 by Ace

The only way to really beat women is to never give them what they want. If you do even only once you are done. The trick in very little words is become a woman yourself (even more than she is), voluble, lunatic, extremely psychotic, extremely needy and always bothering for something (or the exact OPPOSITE - but it must be an opposite, not a middle-hassed thing - as in not caring about anything, always on your own and shady etc. the typical "poet maudìt").

Many male just to let women no bother anymore give them whatever they want and in so doing they are completely subjugated. Women are extremely powerful psychologically (male are primates in comparison); all male should study a little of hedonistic psychology and understand the workings and intricacies, things would change dramatically for them (women have this knowledge innate, it is in their DNA, yes, they are sort of "aliens" on this point).

It's a sort of challenge on who is the leader, as with dogs, only that the leadership is a psychological one, not based on physical attributes.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: livestr0ng on June 14, 2013, 05:56 pm
lol nah i can say with 100% certainty i ain't worried about her putting it about ;) among other things we're fairly well known locally so it would get back to me. they were always in the drivers side as well - she knows i'd cut her head off and shit down her neck if she let anyone drive my car, and around town pretty much everyone knows my car 8)
That was pretty graphic there, buddy. Lol. Ooh somebody's a badass. I already know next time I see a car that stands out, I'm going to think of you ;)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Limetless on June 14, 2013, 05:59 pm
no advice for you sorry mate, just wanted to chime in to agree with you - IME they're ALL like that. every bird i've lived with (there's been a few) has been a complete fucking slob in the house. they're fit as fuck when they're out and about, but just a total fucking slob at home

i reckon in general blokes are tidier than women

Lol I wouldn't say that's the case Raouly, I'm messy and scatty as fuck so I have to have a Mrs with a bit of order to balance me out. :P
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on June 14, 2013, 07:06 pm
so glad i posted this thread, some fucking laugh,  :P
everybody's little stories coming out now. :D makes it easier to deal with the mess in here, It's like a strip from calvin and fucking hobbes. although i love Those damn comic strips  ;D
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: jjwentworth on June 14, 2013, 11:09 pm
i guess im lucky. my girl has ocd so shes always cleaning. she takes my dish before im done eating and puts it in the dishwasher. she takes my glass to the kitchen from the bedroom with half a glass of iced tea left in it which i would definitly drink the next night since its still half full. shes like the human vacuume cleaning up everything right behind me. i could walk in the house leave a trail of clothes going to the bathroom and before i come out of there they will all be picked up and put away. sometimes it could be annoying like when im not done eating and my plate is gone but  for the  most part its nice not having to lift a finger oh and she makes the bed every morning i mean in this day and age who the fuck still makes the bed every morning??
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: livestr0ng on June 15, 2013, 01:21 am
oh and she makes the bed every morning i mean in this day and age who the fuck still makes the bed every morning??
me. every day. then my gf fucks it up. I fix it at night before bed. Then I fix it when I get up. lol
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: whowhatwhere on August 01, 2013, 02:41 am
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
Make a super-dose IV concoction of DMT, LSD, Mescaline and a sprinkle of PCP. Dose the bitch  with a huge amount, dont fuck around here, I´m talking like those huge ass 50ml syringes. Do it whilst shes asleep. Sneak out out the room and go put on your giant garbage costume, that is a costume consisting of a trash can body, black rubbish sack trousers, dead trouts and stuff glued on everywhere. make it really fucking disgusting.
Then grab your taser count to 3, perhaps do a quick hit of crystal meth. Bust in the door, making sure to wake the bitch up as violently as possible. taser her a few times whilst laughing manically. blind fold her and dump her, terrorised, in the boot of your car, for good effect throw a couple of trash bags in with her, the really smelly ones. Drive out to an industrial dumping ground and drag her out of the car. Taze her some more and tell her this is where she belongs in a deep dramatic voice. make sure she dosent spot your car and dance off manically.
After 36 terroriffic hours of her begging to god for salvation and digging her way though other peoples disused condoms and diapers she should be just starting to come down. when she works out how to communicate with people again or use a payphone she should hopefully work her way home or call you for a lift. You should find some fundamental changes have taken place in her head. Of which cleanliness will be high up there at the top.

I hope this helps. If you get caught with her in the boot you DO NOT know me.

ACE

Holy shit, I just laughed for a minute straight due to this post.  I don't know how I got to this thread but damnit, that shit was hilarious ACE!   ;D
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on August 01, 2013, 04:00 pm
I remember that it was funny, Im half shocked to see this thread ressurected.

p.s. girlfriend is still messy as fuck :D
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: NorthernStar on August 01, 2013, 06:49 pm
no advice for you sorry mate, just wanted to chime in to agree with you - IME they're ALL like that. every bird i've lived with (there's been a few) has been a complete fucking slob in the house. they're fit as fuck when they're out and about, but just a total fucking slob at home

i reckon in general blokes are tidier than women

Lol I wouldn't say that's the case Raouly, I'm messy and scatty as fuck so I have to have a Mrs with a bit of order to balance me out. :P

*Rubs eyes in disbelief* Limitless, you have more neg karma than I have post's. You have 13,000 post's am I reading correct. I assume you're one of the originals?
As if he is going to answer, it would be admitting he is literally part of the furniture. Probably doesn't go out for weeks on end, camp stove in the bedroom. *Double facepalm*
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: NorthernStar on August 01, 2013, 07:00 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on August 01, 2013, 07:27 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".

Norhternstar......Are you me? From a different timeline perhaps?
kidding but tell me about it , haha im in the same boat mate. The exact same boat.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: NorthernStar on August 01, 2013, 07:50 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".

Norhternstar......Are you me? From a different timeline perhaps?
kidding but tell me about it , haha im in the same boat mate. The exact same boat.
Nightmare mate isn't it? ha! I don't know if you remember, but I asked for advice myself. (Regarding my Fiancee' lapdancing) So as you know, the benefits out weigh the negatives in my case. But don't take it personal mate, All men have that problem, they don't mean to be rude, or inconsiderate. Women they are a strange bunch, at the best of times. In your case, I would hope she does respect you, and is not taking you for granted. You need to set a few proverbial traps. Ask her certain questions, does she at least come up to you once a day, and put her arms round you. She should at least do that. Maybe you need to be a bit more assertive, Its dominate, or be dominated. If you think she is 100% faithful, then this should pale into insignificance. If you suspect her of infidelities, you need to put your foot down now, and hard. It may even turn her on, bring out the misogynistic neanderthal inside you. 8) I hope you work it out and have many MDMa fueled marathon sex sessions ;)
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on August 01, 2013, 08:08 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".

Norhternstar......Are you me? From a different timeline perhaps?
kidding but tell me about it , haha im in the same boat mate. The exact same boat.
Nightmare mate isn't it? ha! I don't know if you remember, but I asked for advice myself. (Regarding my Fiancee' lapdancing) So as you know, the benefits out weigh the negatives in my case. But don't take it personal mate, All men have that problem, they don't mean to be rude, or inconsiderate. Women they are a strange bunch, at the best of times. In your case, I would hope she does respect you, and is not taking you for granted. You need to set a few proverbial traps. Ask her certain questions, does she at least come up to you once a day, and put her arms round you. She should at least do that. Maybe you need to be a bit more assertive, Its dominate, or be dominated. If you think she is 100% faithful, then this should pale into insignificance. If you suspect her of infidelities, you need to put your foot down now, and hard. It may even turn her on, bring out the misogynistic neanderthal inside you. 8) I hope you work it out and have many MDMa fueled marathon sex sessions ;)

Ohh Shit i remember the thread, Just forgot it was you who posted it :)How did that work out for ya mate?
Nah she dosent take me for granted, She is a faithfull and brilliant missus, just messy as fuck! No matter how much i tell her to clean her shit up she dosent do it, Its not all bad though, shel do things like let the room be a complete dump for a fortnight, then gut it completely make sure its all tidy. Then let it pile up again instead of just keeping on top of it.
Hehe :D Well i do as well
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: Juggernog on August 01, 2013, 08:45 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)

although I did not read all the responses, I have to say. I am more the messy one then my other half.
I don't leave trash around or a sink full of dishes, but I am just generally cluttered.
Mind you, I am not a get off work, kick my shoes off and plop on the couch kind of guy, but I do have my downfalls.
She is usually on my ass about picking up things I have left around.

I reckon it has something to do with how you are raised.
My mother was always a cluttered woman, Never got onto me about picking up my room etc.
so now almost 25 years later it's just who I am.

You might just have to deal with it, or find a woman like mine, that constantly feels the need to tidy up. (DAILY) we do have a young child in the house so that adds to it.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: NorthernStar on August 01, 2013, 10:10 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".

Norhternstar......Are you me? From a different timeline perhaps?
kidding but tell me about it , haha im in the same boat mate. The exact same boat.
Nightmare mate isn't it? ha! I don't know if you remember, but I asked for advice myself. (Regarding my Fiancee' lapdancing) So as you know, the benefits out weigh the negatives in my case. But don't take it personal mate, All men have that problem, they don't mean to be rude, or inconsiderate. Women they are a strange bunch, at the best of times. In your case, I would hope she does respect you, and is not taking you for granted. You need to set a few proverbial traps. Ask her certain questions, does she at least come up to you once a day, and put her arms round you. She should at least do that. Maybe you need to be a bit more assertive, Its dominate, or be dominated. If you think she is 100% faithful, then this should pale into insignificance. If you suspect her of infidelities, you need to put your foot down now, and hard. It may even turn her on, bring out the misogynistic neanderthal inside you. 8) I hope you work it out and have many MDMa fueled marathon sex sessions ;)

Ohh Shit i remember the thread, Just forgot it was you who posted it :)How did that work out for ya mate?
Nah she dosent take me for granted, She is a faithfull and brilliant missus, just messy as fuck! No matter how much i tell her to clean her shit up she dosent do it, Its not all bad though, shel do things like let the room be a complete dump for a fortnight, then gut it completely make sure its all tidy. Then let it pile up again instead of just keeping on top of it.
Hehe :D Well i do as well
Good stuff, and try getting her to wear the French Maids outfit when she's cleaning. 8) I'm happy for you bro, because obviously you are a decent person, and don't judge people. Take care spk soon.
Title: Re: Anyone else's girlfriend messy as fuck?
Post by: HeatFireFlame on August 02, 2013, 10:32 pm
So my girlfriend and i are pretty serious these days, been going out for a good few years been on holidays etc , But she has always been so damn messy! Im more of a Put things where they belong type guy, everything has a place and that's the way i like it.
she is the opposite, messy, just plain messy, gets things out and doesn't put them away, let's stuff accumulate into one big ass pile and mess etc.
Anyway when i tell her to clean it up i either get " Stop bloody moaning" Or why dont you clean it up, I always clean up your mess" Now i rarely make any mess and i would not have to moan if she cleaned up after herself. She always has to make me out to be the bad guy even if she's in the wrong.

No idea how the hell i can make her be tidy, i have tried sitting down and having a decent discussion with her, she is actual very fair about it all, Says fine no problem etc, but goes back to being messy soon after, I dont know if it's intentional or not, i doubt it is, I personally think she has always been this way and nobody has ever moaned at her about it when she was younger so she got used to it and thinks it's okay.

Now no suggestions like " spike her with speed, that'l make her clean up" As funny as they are, Im really looking for some advice here. if i have learned anything it's that on the road, SOMEONE will be in the same situation.

Peace all :)  :)
I think like stated above, all birds are of the same caliber, when it comes to cleanliness. I am a bit OCD really, I'm like that mother fucker out of sleeping with the enemy, I have to colour code my underwear. I would miss her messiness if she was to leave though. You know her thongs drying on the radiator, her bra lying round on the floor. Tampons Lipgloss,Concealer,all strew n about our home. Tonsorial accoutrements, and all manner of things from chewing gum to elastic bands. And everything in between. She does work hard so I don't mind cleaning up after her. But for christ sake, when you see the bin bag in the kitchen full, it's full, don't stuff another ten items in there, just change the fucking bin bag. And that's a cracker, I cook her tea, then she picks the plates up and plonks them in the sink, then four hours later, when they are still there ,I'll ask why she didn't just wash them, and she state she was just "putting them in to soak" ha! OK I believe you hunny no problem. Then you do the cleaning again, and you don't get thanks, no chance, you don't do it for thanks. Just a little smile, a tad of appreciation. But nothing. She wakes up and you put a coffee on the table, you wait for a pat on the back, but it's like getting blood out of a stone. She just shoots you a look, as if to say, not enough sugar in that. AAARRRRGGGGGGGGGG. And numerous other idiosyncrasies, Like the moniker says, "Women, you can't live with them, you can't live without them".

Norhternstar......Are you me? From a different timeline perhaps?
kidding but tell me about it , haha im in the same boat mate. The exact same boat.
Nightmare mate isn't it? ha! I don't know if you remember, but I asked for advice myself. (Regarding my Fiancee' lapdancing) So as you know, the benefits out weigh the negatives in my case. But don't take it personal mate, All men have that problem, they don't mean to be rude, or inconsiderate. Women they are a strange bunch, at the best of times. In your case, I would hope she does respect you, and is not taking you for granted. You need to set a few proverbial traps. Ask her certain questions, does she at least come up to you once a day, and put her arms round you. She should at least do that. Maybe you need to be a bit more assertive, Its dominate, or be dominated. If you think she is 100% faithful, then this should pale into insignificance. If you suspect her of infidelities, you need to put your foot down now, and hard. It may even turn her on, bring out the misogynistic neanderthal inside you. 8) I hope you work it out and have many MDMa fueled marathon sex sessions ;)

Ohh Shit i remember the thread, Just forgot it was you who posted it :)How did that work out for ya mate?
Nah she dosent take me for granted, She is a faithfull and brilliant missus, just messy as fuck! No matter how much i tell her to clean her shit up she dosent do it, Its not all bad though, shel do things like let the room be a complete dump for a fortnight, then gut it completely make sure its all tidy. Then let it pile up again instead of just keeping on top of it.
Hehe :D Well i do as well
Good stuff, and try getting her to wear the French Maids outfit when she's cleaning. 8) I'm happy for you bro, because obviously you are a decent person, and don't judge people. Take care spk soon.

Aww that would be kick ass, I need to start working on something like that, That would be the best thing about having a stripper for a missus, She could give you private lapdances all the time.
Need to get something sorted for definite.