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Discussion => Off topic => Topic started by: Juggernog on July 16, 2013, 01:57 am

Title: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 16, 2013, 01:57 am
So, I recently posted some things about my wife and my suspicions that she was cheating..

For any of you that followed, I ended up reading some messages she failed to delete from her phone that pretty much verified she was TRYING to.

The reason I'm posting this though, is because I read her responses to him several times and it surprisingly did not anger me.
Reading her responses and how she described her fantasies from seeing his dick pix kind of turned me on.
Not the dick part, but just how detailed her fantasies were in response to him. She never tells me these fantasies. So it was seeing a new part of her.

My question is, does this make me a cuckold or something? Because the more I think about it, the more it turns me on to see my wife being pleasured, of course with me in her mouth, but regardless. Is this somewhat normal?

I love my wife, so I just look at it like sex. nothing else.

Thoughts?

Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Trippinmonkey on July 16, 2013, 02:06 am
jesus christ...

how is this related to sr?!
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: lssb2132 on July 16, 2013, 02:20 am
jesus christ...

how is this related to sr?!
It's not, hence Off Topic.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Snoopish on July 16, 2013, 02:30 am
Well I'll pop in here because, from those I've talked to, this isn't something that's agreed upon much but I'll share a little personal philosophy I've adopted thanks to a friend or two:

short answer: sex is sex. Whatever that means to you. A lot of of people seem to think it's an emotional abandonment to cheat on someone. Well, one of my best friends has an open relationship. It wasn't easy but they make it work because they care about each other.

Me? I'm big on affection: touching, hugging, kissing, holding, whatever. I think it's something to spread around. Not everyone I've been with feels that way.

It's about the perspective of you and the other people involved: does she just want to fuck? Or is she looking to replace you? Does the other guy just want to fuck? Or does he want to take her away?

The way I see it, life, the world, and a whole lot of people will shit on you every chance they get -- if you can find a couple of people who will support you physically, mentally, emotionally...hell, that's more than most will ever have.


Sorry for the hippie-rant(I'm not really some out-there "free-love" kinda person) but the big part is talking to her about it. If she's just doing it to get some gratification and you're cool with that -- no problems.

Every relationship is different and tricky and painful as all hell -- but they're usually worth it.


Cheers brother, I hope things work out and this long ramble contained something useful



Snoopish
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: The Missus on July 16, 2013, 02:40 am
Snoopish basically summed it up. In the end you should just talk to her about it, open communication is key to a happy relationship.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 16, 2013, 04:02 am
jesus christ...

how is this related to sr?!

it's in off topic, thanks.

jesus christ...

how is this related to sr?!
It's not, hence Off Topic.

+1

Well I'll pop in here because, from those I've talked to, this isn't something that's agreed upon much but I'll share a little personal philosophy I've adopted thanks to a friend or two:

short answer: sex is sex. Whatever that means to you. A lot of of people seem to think it's an emotional abandonment to cheat on someone. Well, one of my best friends has an open relationship. It wasn't easy but they make it work because they care about each other.

Me? I'm big on affection: touching, hugging, kissing, holding, whatever. I think it's something to spread around. Not everyone I've been with feels that way.

It's about the perspective of you and the other people involved: does she just want to fuck? Or is she looking to replace you? Does the other guy just want to fuck? Or does he want to take her away?

The way I see it, life, the world, and a whole lot of people will shit on you every chance they get -- if you can find a couple of people who will support you physically, mentally, emotionally...hell, that's more than most will ever have.


Sorry for the hippie-rant(I'm not really some out-there "free-love" kinda person) but the big part is talking to her about it. If she's just doing it to get some gratification and you're cool with that -- no problems.

Every relationship is different and tricky and painful as all hell -- but they're usually worth it.


Cheers brother, I hope things work out and this long ramble contained something useful



Snoopish

Kind of how I feel about the situation, I don't seem his as someone to replace me, and my wife is just turned on by him cause he is way more endowed then I am, I just thinks she just wants to get a feel for something "forbidden" if you get what i'm saying, but not to find a replacement, we have children together, we love and for the most part trust each other.

Snoopish basically summed it up. In the end you should just talk to her about it, open communication is key to a happy relationship.

We have talked about it, and she says she is open for whatever, If I'm okay with it (which I don't believe is the case, she wants to be spread open)
and not to mention, in the texts I read OVER AND OVER, she considered meeting him, but she told me she felt convicted it just wasn't the right thing to do. I could see the truth in her about this, plus I know this guy pretty good. So I tell my buddy, I don't mind, as long as i'm there getting into the (straight) action. just keeping her satisfied to the MAX. she would not barely be able to stand us both.

We recently had sex, and just to get a "feel" for how she really though, while I was fucking her, I said "I bet you would love to be streched by (said guy)" and she instantly got soaking wet. (more so then usual)
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: The Missus on July 16, 2013, 04:50 am
As long as you guys are checking in with each other feelings and is fine with it there shouldn't be an issue. She like's it, you like it, that one guy likes it, EVERYBADY HAPPY haha
But if jealousy begins to creep up then put a pause on things (although it sounds like that's not the case). It sounds like you guys care a lot about each other. She didn't even meet up with the guy because she felt bad, it's obvious she loves you. She's not leaving you, she workin' with you! That is awesome.

Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 16, 2013, 06:05 am
As long as you guys are checking in with each other feelings and is fine with it there shouldn't be an issue. She like's it, you like it, that one guy likes it, EVERYBADY HAPPY haha
But if jealousy begins to creep up then put a pause on things (although it sounds like that's not the case). It sounds like you guys care a lot about each other. She didn't even meet up with the guy because she felt bad, it's obvious she loves you. She's not leaving you, she workin' with you! That is awesome.

Well, we are gonna give it a go. Just got done "talking" about it ;) in the midst of other things, but she stayed more moist then I would have ever imagined.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Snoopish on July 17, 2013, 06:45 pm
Sounds like things will work out: I'm happy for you all. I hope things go well as I know this kind of thing can go south quick. Not trying to get all pessimistic but just repeating what another said above: if you start getting second thoughts the best thing is to let her know asap.


Cheers,


Snoopish
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: BruceCampbell on July 17, 2013, 07:36 pm
Ugh please don't use the word "moist".
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 17, 2013, 07:43 pm
Ugh please don't use the word "moist".

hater! ;)
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: The Missus on July 19, 2013, 10:51 pm
Good luck, be safe on your journey.



Moist.
It's an alright word until it gets to the 'oist' part, by then my mouth feels assaulted.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 20, 2013, 04:21 am
lol, Missus! that made me laugh. We still have not pulled the trigger on this fantasy, but I'm sure it will be soon.

p.s. "M O I S T" ;)
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 20, 2013, 06:11 pm
The answer's yes, your a fucking cuckold, and your wife's a ugly cunt. I know I've banged her tight trap 2 ( asshole) and I cum in her tight pussy, because she hasn't had an orgasm for years anyway.

Now let her go little cock. and you can start shagging fat mar666 or brucecampbell

thanks for the input. put a smile on my face.

Move on to someone who cares GayBruce.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Hearts on July 21, 2013, 09:40 am
I think almost everyone here has given you better advice than I can, but I just hope for the best with your relationship with your wife :) . This may sound cheesy as shit but maybe take her out for a nice dinner one evening and make her feel special, have a little to drink, and go home to bed. Maybe she might reconsider what she's doing the next day and forget about that guy?
I don't know really, but by the sounds of it you're really handling the situation well, thats something to be proud of.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 21, 2013, 04:52 pm
I think almost everyone here has given you better advice than I can, but I just hope for the best with your relationship with your wife :) . This may sound cheesy as shit but maybe take her out for a nice dinner one evening and make her feel special, have a little to drink, and go home to bed. Maybe she might reconsider what she's doing the next day and forget about that guy?
I don't know really, but by the sounds of it you're really handling the situation well, thats something to be proud of.

Yeah, I'm a pretty easy going guy. It really takes a LOT to get me upset or mad or whatever, so this is a drop in the bucket compared to everything else in life. heh

always good to hear from ya hearts. (non stalker type of course) lol
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: NorthernStar on July 21, 2013, 09:20 pm
I feel for you homey, I think all men get turned on by other men steaming of their birds. ( girlfriends) You have to keep her on her toes mate. It seems she needs that kind of treatment, some women do. I think that's the part turning you on, not the point it's another persons   cock'.But that she want's it. try role playing with her, you maybe peep on her while she's masturbating, or Dress up as someone else and take her by force, obviously tell her you have a surprise and take it from there. I did one time also get aroused by the thought of 3 dudes giving my g/f one you know like her bouncing on one's cock while the other fuck's her bottom, and the 3rd gets a suck, That would be so fucking horny come to think of it. It turned out it was all part of my imagination and paranoia because she works in an adult bar, I though the bouncers and her boss where having cocaine fueled sex parties with her and other girls at work. You need to dominate her now mate or your going to be dominated.
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: lizard8sum on July 21, 2013, 11:31 pm
Ok i'll start by saying i didnt read  all of the posts but heres my opion I guess.I'm in a polyamorous relation ship and i could not be happier.Sex is a biologicly driven part of life love is  but a small part of that .Trust  is were love is more applicable.I have no reason to be dishonest with her ect. so much less stress than in my other relation ships.Look into it.I hope i helped alil bit
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Hearts on July 22, 2013, 10:18 am
Cheers Jug :) God damn forums were down, right after I wrote a reply it went under maintenance, guh 
Title: Re: Unusual thread from jugg
Post by: Juggernog on July 22, 2013, 01:09 pm
yeah, forums being down all day really ruined my day. seriously.