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Title: No Sex Drive
Post by: onionologist on January 08, 2013, 12:09 am
Guys...I have no sex drive.

I have sex w/my spouse maybe once a week, in a good month. I take zoloft, about 50mg a day. I am weening off, I am now taking 25mg a day. I plan to ween off entirely, but it will be a long run. I feel/think the zoloft has played a roll. Maybe it's boredom and that's a bad thing.

At any rate. Does anybody have any suggestions? I ordered some molly, but I don't believe the wife will be down...:( This makes it hard to expand feelings/emotions, and have experiences with her.

Not sure what to do, but I fear for my marriage nonetheless.

-onion-
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: edar on January 08, 2013, 12:12 am
whats zoloft (opiate)
  Id say lay off the vaps  bud  ;D &  get some amphets
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: TrashBox on January 08, 2013, 12:18 am
If you can convince her to do molly with you it could possibly save your sex life.

Why wont she try it? If she okay with your drug use?
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: ChineseGeneral on January 08, 2013, 12:30 am
I hear everyone is being neutered in the USA using the GMO food supply, they even mass murder their own military and get away with it.  If you ever try to use your guns they will just use their seed destroying organisms.  Who knows really they have so many ways that they are using to mass murder it is beyond the Chinese General to help you all. 

Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: onionologist on January 08, 2013, 12:53 am
ChineseGeneral you can take your smear elsewhere. Thanks.

TB- Thank you. She is a 'noid.  :o
Edar- Zoloft is SSRI anti-depressant. :P

-onion-
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: DiamondSky on January 08, 2013, 01:27 am
Pramipexole HCL (clearnet http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pramipexole)

You're mileage may vary. My girlfriend gets a LOT more love when I am taking that stuff. A LOT. I also jerk off A LOT more often.

Also, not to be too Dr. friendly here but if you don't mind a conversation with the Dr. he might be able to do a testosterone test and see if maybe you are running a little low and offer some supplementation. A shot of test would likely get you feeling a little more young and randy.

MDMA is FANTASTIC at creating a loving bond between partners, not so amazing at satisfying the actual intercourse. The speedy part of the MDMA normally shrinks me up. If I know I want to do a little loving on the drug I always take some Viagra with it but more often than not the loved up feeling is more than enough and sex actually requires a little effort.

Last but not least, it might not even be you. I notice if my girlfriend is turned on I'm normally pretty well turned on. Maybe try mixing things up a little. Have a nice massage night. Spend an hour eating her out. Buy her a new toy and tell her how much you want to see her play with it. Sometimes when you are in a long tern relationship it's easy to forget that the person you are with is a living sex godess that needs to be worshiped and when you look at them you just see the girl that cleans the kitchen.

Anyway, good luck!
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: CrazyBart on January 08, 2013, 02:22 am
Inject yourself with some testosterone and it will be hard not to bone our wife
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Thizzed410 on January 08, 2013, 02:52 am
Supplment with vitamin d, zinc, and mag.  Studies show thay each one of these help raise test, a quick google search will reveal this and it works trust me, morning wood like a teenager.  Start eating alot of healthy fats like peanuts, peanut butter, avocado, ect.  A diet high in healthy fats will boost your hormones.  The number one thing you can do to boost test levels is exercising!!
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: hellwillbetoasty on January 08, 2013, 03:02 am
haven't SSRI's been shown to generally cause an decrease in libido in some people, but not all, and with varying degree between all the different kinds of SSRI's? The zoloft may be what is killing your sex drive, did it ever happen before you took zoloft?

edit: i meant decrease not increase, I'm a dumbass
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: davidkelly on January 08, 2013, 04:51 am
It's most likely the Zoloft killing you're sex drive. Sexual side effects from antidepressants are very very common. Sometimes it's bad, sometimes its good, and every medication affects people differently. When I took zoloft a couple years ago it made me really horny all the time and I lasted a lot longer. When I was on paxil it killed my sex drive completely. No desire, no interest, sex seemed like a chore and I had trouble maintaining a boner.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Barbijuana on January 08, 2013, 05:14 am
It is good to hear you are trying to get off the SSRI's -- If you have time; here is a very insightful documentary detailing the huge profits of creating a diagnostic and then administering a life threatening medication to people and being fully aware of the adverse affects.

When money is around; compassion is absent.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=UDlH9sV0lHU
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: go4green on January 08, 2013, 06:00 am
It's a common side effect of anti-dep meds.
I got back to normal when I stopped them.
Speak with your doc about your concerns. He/she may change the type you're currently taking. Or may suggest taking some time off.

In terms of drugs, there's nothing like H  ;)
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Ahoyhoy on January 08, 2013, 11:06 pm
Yep concur with others - the loss of sex drive is probably down to the Zoloft.

In terms of drugs to get your libido up and running, try these combos, all of which have worked for me:

Viagra or Cialis + sativa marijuana
Viagra or Cialis + MDMA
Viagra or Cialis + Methylone
Sativa marijuana + alcohol

Best of luck now...
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: l1llykins on January 08, 2013, 11:23 pm
First off, don't bother with any mdxx until a about a month after your last dose of Zoloft, else it will be a waste (they cancel each other out).

In any case, one thing you can take while everything is clearing your system is GHB. Just be sure to start off on a low dose so you don't end up passing out instead. Your sex drive will soar and the euphoria is similar to MDMA --though unlike that stuff, it wont make you limp, hehe.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: valakki on January 09, 2013, 03:06 pm
get off the Zoloft dont take the MDMA with it.
Also for a lot of ppl MDMA causes impotence while the roll lasts. So be ready for that.
 Why not try some psychedelics instead? 2c-b?
also mdma can save your marriage by helping you talk about the problems. but it will not solve it for you. you will have to solve it yourself.
Take a romantic vacation with your girl. Fuck in public, make it exciting and extreme if you have to.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: BlueGiraffe on January 09, 2013, 07:35 pm
Hey onion,

l1llykins above is correct on all points - SSRI's interfering with MDxx's and GHB being more effective than MDMA for sex while allowing a similar intimacy (not as deep as MDMA, but funnier, and a lot sexier).

All SSRI's (inc Zoloft) are known to interfere with sex drive, and it is good that you are titrating your dose. And it will be very good to get off it altogether in time - it should be used as short-term intervention only.

GHB is superb for enhancing sexual desire AND sexual function at the same time (a combination lacking in many other drugs used in the bedroom), and it is far more accessible as an experience than MDMA - so you wife may more readily be able to go there with you.

The archetypal "intimacy + sexuality" combo is MDMA + 2C-B + GHB (in that order - taken sequentially). During the MDMA phase there is opportunity for going deep and resolving, and once you're into the 2C-B and GHB then you can get into integration and deep intimate fucking. There's nothing better - truly...

BG
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: whowhatwhere on January 10, 2013, 11:00 pm
Guys...I have no sex drive.

I have sex w/my spouse maybe once a week, in a good month. I take zoloft, about 50mg a day. I am weening off, I am now taking 25mg a day. I plan to ween off entirely, but it will be a long run. I feel/think the zoloft has played a roll. Maybe it's boredom and that's a bad thing.

At any rate. Does anybody have any suggestions? I ordered some molly, but I don't believe the wife will be down...:( This makes it hard to expand feelings/emotions, and have experiences with her.

Not sure what to do, but I fear for my marriage nonetheless.

-onion-

Get off of the Zoloft, it is fucking awful.  When I was in my teens, the doctor threw that crap at me simply because I was going through the typical teenage relationship crap.  After taking it, I'd come to find out that I was receiving THREE TIMES the typical adult dose and it was making me crazy.  I'd never had suicidal thoughts before taking it but while on it, I'd seriously contemplated ending my life.  It really screwed up with the chemical balance in my head and I was messed up mentally for a few months.  When it got to that point, I decided to taper myself off of it because I hated the way it made me feel.  There are class actions lawsuits against the maker of this horrible drug because of how harmful it is.  If something designed to make you less depressed is pushing you towards suicide, I'd say something is wrong.  To this day I'll sporadically have what they call "brain tremors" that I'm convinced came from using Zoloft.  It doesn't happen very often but it is still a lingering effect of the doctor-approved poison.
Lately, I've been using kratom as an anti-anxiety remedy and it also has a wide variety of other uses.  When I first came across it, I was skeptical that a legal herb could produce such wonderful effects but after trying it, I'm 100% satisfied.  I've been using it for the past four years and it has been a fantastic addition to my life.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: BlueGiraffe on January 10, 2013, 11:34 pm
You may wish to experiment with Ashwagandha, Tribulus and Mucuna as well. But getting off the SSRI should be your primary focus...

BG

Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: wasta on January 11, 2013, 03:13 am
I know that opioids are killing the libido too.

It makes me too lazy.
No trips around the house.
No kitchen-table, or washing-machine.
Wont leave the bed.
Work work, and sweating torrents.

Your wive will slip out of your hands like a piece of soap.

All that trouble just for 3 or 4 seconds of extasy.

Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: thedopestjunkie on January 11, 2013, 04:44 am
Why not try Cialis or Viagra? I have heard really good things about Cialis.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: PriscillaMarie90 on January 11, 2013, 04:57 am
Yeah dude, anti-depressants will kill your sex drive completely. I know this from experience. I was taking Prozac, but it's all the same shit pretty much...
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: BlueGiraffe on January 11, 2013, 08:49 pm
Why not try Cialis or Viagra? I have heard really good things about Cialis.

It just fills your cock with more blood - it's a mechanical thing. Does nothing for sex-drive...

BG
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: ChineseGeneral on January 14, 2013, 08:54 am
Sex is a healing mechanism, if you don't feel well enough to have sex you are likely sick with something very serious.  Look into Chinese herbal medecine and other medicinal herbs.  I could recommend my personal physician who is a Chinese doctor but that is not possible.  You will have to help your self as everyone has to do in the world without a natural balance like the one we live in.  Balance and homeostasis will be achieved eventually though, but not by humans.  Humans only understand betraying and destruction.  The good ones are becoming too few to matter in regards to the health of the eco-system. 

The Chinese General is working on bio-and fungal soil and water remediation of chemicals and radiation. 
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Kheper on January 14, 2013, 11:02 am
locate some "magnum tonic wine"

thank me later
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: BlueGiraffe on January 15, 2013, 07:41 am
Sex is a healing mechanism, if you don't feel well enough to have sex you are likely sick with something very serious.  Look into Chinese herbal medecine and other medicinal herbs.  I could recommend my personal physician who is a Chinese doctor but that is not possible.  You will have to help your self as everyone has to do in the world without a natural balance like the one we live in.  Balance and homeostasis will be achieved eventually though, but not by humans.  Humans only understand betraying and destruction.  The good ones are becoming too few to matter in regards to the health of the eco-system. 

The Chinese General is working on bio-and fungal soil and water remediation of chemicals and radiation.

Agree very much about looking into Chinese tonic herbs and working with a TCM practitioner in this regard.

Your lack of sex-drive is almost 100% likely to be due to your SSRI use - so the comment that you are "likely sick with something very serious" is not valid in this case IMHO.

BG
Title: Re: No Sex Drive UPDATE 4/7/13
Post by: onionologist on April 07, 2013, 07:49 pm
OKay short update from months ago from posting this.

Stopped zoloft for several months. Stupid discontinuation sucked but I managed. Had several journeys on MDA, nothing over 60mg at once though. In fact that was my largest dose, everything else was less than 50mg each time. I had plenty of good times.

Somewhere about a month after stopping, I began to decline. I felt like royal shit and I couldn't function anymore. I decided to start the zoloft again and I already feel better a few days into it. I am only at 25mg and plan to stay as low as possible dose-wise.

Sex...still isn't something I think about often. I haven't had sex with my wife in probably a month or better...

Sucks!

-onion-
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Immortally on April 07, 2013, 08:48 pm
agree with most here that ssri,s are disastrous for your sex life,to restore your chemical balance in your brains after using ssri,s takes a few months then you  have a more objective picture.
On the long term find the root the caused the problems otherwise (due drugs use)you increase the problem so that you can,t perform sexually whitout means(unnatural)
On the short term you,ve all kind off sex stimuli ,here in the Netherlands they use poppers:-)
Sorry about your decline hope you find a solution whitout drugs in my opinion the best way,otherwise it,s symptom Control good luck
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: canuckboy on April 07, 2013, 09:01 pm
HEY!   Same here.

I take abilify and methadone and it stripped my sex drive.  Girl almost left me. I grid Viagra with no success. Doctor said it was psychological.

I bought testosterone enthanate here on the road.  - IT WORKED WONDERS !
seriously,  I get morning words, jerking off all the time, boning the girl , it's a totally 180

Winter and medications strip your testosterone.  You can tell by your erection being only half hard and no interest in masterbatio

Do, get some testosterone , it will totally work.   I used  250m a week and $130. Worth lasts 6 weeks .  Its also good for gaining muscle mass which is another reason I bought it.

Cheap and easy solution.   Get the vitality of a twenty year old again!
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: onionologist on April 07, 2013, 11:14 pm
Thanks guys for the reply!!!

-onion-
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Barbijuana on April 08, 2013, 03:16 pm
HEY!   Same here.

I take abilify and methadone and it stripped my sex drive.  Girl almost left me. I grid Viagra with no success. Doctor said it was psychological.

I bought testosterone enthanate here on the road.  - IT WORKED WONDERS !
seriously,  I get morning words, jerking off all the time, boning the girl , it's a totally 180

Winter and medications strip your testosterone.  You can tell by your erection being only half hard and no interest in masterbatio

Do, get some testosterone , it will totally work.   I used  250m a week and $130. Worth lasts 6 weeks .  Its also good for gaining muscle mass which is another reason I bought it.

Cheap and easy solution.   Get the vitality of a twenty year old again!

Woah woah woah!

Yes Test Enth will work on bringing you back to a vigorous iron pumping pussy humping machine, but you need to RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH before you INJECT this stuff into your body. It is not like taking a vitamin with breakfast. Depending on the cycle you are running, there could be serious side effects if you aren't fully aware of what you are doing. You will also need a POST-Cycle Therapy (Nolvadex, Aromasin, Vit E)  to handle the transition from relying solely on a foreign substance for Testosterone to getting your nuts off their lazy asses and start producing again.

Forums.steroid.com is a great resource full of information and very helpful members. Search before you ask anything, it has probably been answered and they don't take to keenly to help non-searching dickwads

Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: phoboss on April 08, 2013, 04:03 pm
If I was you I'd find an agony aunt to spill your guts out to then the sex drive part shove a carrot up your arse hole before sex and leave it there just don't sit down though and I'm sure you'll have a stalker like you was 10 again looking at your teacher bending over ha ha ha but seriously mate if your wife ain't down with it give her a couple of slaps or tie her up she'll love it if not just shoot her and bury her under the patio no one will know ok but make sure you get a agony aunt as you sound like you need one cos coming on here asking this marriage saving stuff is only gonna get you responses like I've given you ok hope it all works out if not make a noose instead ok cheers hope I made you laugh mate.....
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Whothefuckisthis on April 08, 2013, 07:51 pm
You people are funny. I get this is an SR forum and were all about drugs but haven't any of you thought that the problem could be solved without narcotics? For instance the male body begins to supress testosterone production in your early thirties. The suppression happens quicker for males who have families or even one who's expecting a child. Researches have found that men naturally decrease their testosterone levels in order to emotionally connect with children and their spouse. It's where the instinct to care and protect your family comes from. So in turn they've linked the decrease of testosterone with your sex drive (obviously). So therefore it could be a problem related to that (which a significant number of men who take Viagra and EDS pills have dicoveres they only need to increase hormone levels) as being in a relationship suppousidly starts in order to empathize with your partner. Maybe a consultation with a real doctor could help your libido last a whole lot longer than Molly or any boner pill you could take.  ;D

My apologies to those of you who have already mentioned this. Obviously I didn't mean you.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: onionologist on April 15, 2013, 10:03 pm
I took phoboss' advice and hung myself.

Thanks Phoboss!

-onion-
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Somepup on April 16, 2013, 03:30 am
If your in your 40's go to the doc and ask about hormone replacement therapy. If he's not having it then you can self medicate after extensive research.
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: DanielHerd on April 16, 2013, 09:51 am
sex is hard work, just dont do it, unless for reproduction of course
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: La Blue Girl on April 27, 2013, 03:37 am
Get off the SSRi's Nasty fuckers..

Start taking Niacin AKA B3 start off small and work your way up till you feel "right" I'm serious .. They have been doing GREAT work even with schizophrenics.. You can do really high dosages even up to around 5000mg per day.. BUT start off small and work your way up.. a lot of people that were living in group homes are now on about 3000MG per day and are now living on their own..

 That is step one.. Step two is talking to her and reconnecting to her.. Maybe she would be okay with you taking the MDMA ( no less then 30 days off the SSRI's the longer then better) that way you guys can talk and you can dump out everything that is stuck in your head and that needs let out..

Maybe try some "unorthadox" play.. Dress up , role playing ect..   
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: AnonymousAddict on April 27, 2013, 04:02 am
Bro Go to the doc and have your Test levels checked, it could be the testosterone levels are low, It happend to me, AND IM NOT EVEN FUCKING 30~~~!! Not to mention im on opiates ..

But You can Take MDMA everytime u wanna have sex, its great when using it, but thats only a ban aid for the issue at hand..

The ZOloft could be having allot to do with it..

The is a actual doc on here named DOCTORX i think, speak with him... Guys who mention MDMA im not saying NO to it, but we all know when we were young and fucking like rabbits it wasnt cause of MDMA... 
Title: Re: No Sex Drive
Post by: Ahoyhoy on April 27, 2013, 05:57 pm
Inject yourself with some testosterone and it will be hard not to bone our wife


Why stop there? Inject some testosterone, pop a viagra and wash it all down with 150mg of xtc.....the ask your wife to bring her best friend (and / or sister) round...