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Discussion => Newbie discussion => Topic started by: ginni138 on April 23, 2013, 08:24 am
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Doing this to new people, with no reason or rationale, seems like a great way to create anger, enemies, and much ill will. What is it? Do some of these guys just get real cocky, or is that cooky, too big for their pants? Honestly, seems like another example of a big fish in a little pond. The man-about-town in a tiny Podunk farm town. No matter where you go, it is just the same, base, silly, and fatuous human element. So unprofessional and so clannish, like a gathering of sweaty, drunken fish wives. Jesus.
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I know the feeling, but you have to understand it can't be too easy to take your first steps into a community like this... Maybe you didnt read their profile in detail? Or maybe you did and they said nothing, but didnt feel like taking the risk.
You can see I'm a noob too, but I can already tell you that you will find sellers who can accept newcomers and it will all go well, also others will cancel no matter what.
Probably a bit of prior communication can help, we have to understand that building trust is not easy, and for a seller, a new buyer is also a (probable) high risk, sure higher risk than an old-timer.
So, cool down, maybe try to communicate a bit, and accept the first steps will take their time... I havent been here for long either but already found some really cool ppl around, its worth the time!